Perhaps one of the most powerful things we can do on our journey to supreme self-confidence, and living our ideal life is realizing and NAMING exactly what it is that we want.

Think of it this way: if you can’t say what it is that you want, how can you expect to achieve it?

You could have the most finely tuned, expensive, state-of-the-art compass in all the land, but unless you have a destination, your journey will be unsuccessful.

So, start now. What do you want? Really. Is not what you think you should want, even not what your family thinks you should want, not what the generic standards of “society” say you should want. YOU. If you could wave a magic wand, and have your ideal life materialize in front of your very eyes, what would it look like? Here are some questions to get you started:

How do you want to make a living? Would you be an entrepreneur who works from the comfort of her own computer and travels the world? Would you have an upper-management role at your current place of employment? Maybe work at a totally different place of employment from where you are now? Would you be working at ALL? Would you spend your days making people’s lives better? Teaching people? Healing people? Performing? Selling products that make a difference? What is your DREAM job?

Where would you live? Would you live in your current city, or somewhere across the country, or even across the world? Would you live in a posh New York City apartment? A cottage on the beach in Florida? A mansion on the cliffs of Newport, Rhode Island? Maybe you are a total nomad who travels from place to place letting the universe create your path? Where is your ideal place of residence?

Who would you live with? Would you live with a significant other whom you currently have? A significant other whom you have yet to meet? Your family? Your children? If you don’t have children, do you want children? Do you want to live totally and 100% alone? That’s cool too. Who do you want to spend time with?

How would you spend your time? Aside from the time you spent creating your “living” (if that’s your path), how do you want to occupy your days? Going to school or studying to improve yourself in your chosen field? Reading in the comfort of a cozy armchair in your own home? Traveling to exotic destinations all over the world? Surfing at the beach? Meditating on a grassy hillside? Working out? Hanging out with friends? Cherishing time with your family?

The choice of how you live your life is YOURS.

It really is.

You just have to decide what exactly it is that you want.

Realize it. Name it. Claim it as your own. And now, let’s start creating it!

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